Tuesday, May 14, 2024

An Explanation for my Response to a Nosey Neighbor


Hey everyone, welcome back to another blog entry!  Today’s blog is about the video I did back in March 2023 on Sundown Towns in Indiana.


Several months prior to the video (September 2022), I made a video about a delivery I did in a rural area of northern Indiana. A nosey neighbor came out during my route. I was making a Spark delivery for the house across the street. I pulled up the house, but instead of pulling into the driveway, I pulled up to the side of the street near their driveway. The neighbor was already outside doing yard work or whatever. He came up to his side of the street as I was still in my car getting the stickers scanned. He started asking me all sorts of questions. When he was finally satisfied that I was not out to do harm (I suppose, because he claimed all sorts of unmarked cars were coming into the area, but he was a fairly large muscular looking man so why he was worried, I do not know), he started asking me about the Spark gig. I completed the delivery and went on about my day.


In the comments from that video, someone commented: "I would have told them to KMA (kiss my @$$) and mind your business." That comment and that scenario stuck with me for a long time. And because of that interaction, I do my best to try to hop out of my car, as soon as possible, so that all spectators can see my vest and that I am there on business. I even, oftentimes, keep my vest on on the way home so that in those rural areas, others can see that I am not a “them” that needs to be watched.


In all actuality, the comment itself was pretty innocuous, but it made me reflect on who I am, where I live, and the history of this area. In my opinion, responding in the way that the commenter recommended would add fuel to the fire, which is not something I want to deal with during deliveries. As you saw in the thumbnail, my response is rooted in the biblical verse Matthew 10:16, "Behold, I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: be ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as doves." This means being wise and harmless simultaneously as you deal with these wolves. I just want to do my work and go home, each and every day.


Living in Indiana, a state with a dark history, especially for a Black woman like me, means I have to be extra cautious. I did not know the following facts about Indiana until I started looking into it for the video. An internet search turned up that Indiana ranks second in the nation for Sundown Towns, only behind Illinois. BlackIndyLive.com wrote the following article, “Report: Indiana Leads Nation in Sundown Towns, More than all of South Combined” dated June 22, 2022. This is where I got this startling information. I was like no way. I went down south a couple of years ago, and I felt quite paranoid at times down there. Then there was my husband’s paranoia that just compounded the effect. We were traumatized just being in the south. But, to hear that our very own birth state has more sundown towns than all of the south was a bit of an eye-opener. For those who are unfamiliar, these Sundown Towns were places where non-whites were excluded, often through violence or intimidation. It was often told that the non-whites needed to be out of the city before sundown or risk their lives. The History and Social Justice Website (https://justice.tougaloo.edu/) create a nice interactive map of the locations of sundown towns or other towns that have had a significant racial incident.


[Screenshot of the interactive map]


Let me tell you how I first learned about Sundown Towns. It was not in school, but from my grandmother. I lived in Northern Indiana. I attended Indiana University-Bloomington (IUB), which was south of us, in the middle of the state. She warned me not to stop in Martinsville, a town that was on the route to Bloomington. This was because that was where the KKK was known to be active there. During my college years, I had to drive through areas with this dark history, making sure never to stop unless absolutely necessary and at a very populated, modern-looking gas station.


I have two personal stories related to Sundown Towns. The first was when I was at IUB. A group of us got pulled over at night. The driver, for whatever reason, thought it was a good idea to turn off his headlights to see how dark it was outside. He told the officer that he was doing an experiment. An experiment! Are you serious! It was terrifying, but he got off with a warning. The second time was during a senior year education class where I had to do externships in Martinsville. I was so nervous. They sent two non-white students to Martinsville. Everyone else had closer areas. Because I did not have a car, I had to rely on this other student for transportation, so I made sure to know where she was at all times. Despite the unnerving experience, nothing negative happened, but I was always on edge. A side observation from the Martinsville externship…During one of my observations, the children had to line up and take this orange substance that had been placed in little paper cups (the size of the ketchup cups at restaurants). The cups were brought in on a metal tray. When asked, the teacher told me that those were fluoride treatments. Much of the water supply in that area was by well, so they did not get commercially treated water. This was the “solution” to not getting “treated” water.


Given all this history and my personal experiences, you can understand why I responded as I did in the original video, which was to stay calm, converse with the man, and deescalate the situation. Proverbs 15:1 says, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." The man who confronted me was already looking for trouble, so it was best to de-escalate the situation.


When you’re out there, be smart and wise. Not all battles are worth fighting because not all are winnable. Stay safe, be wise, and be harmless.


Sunday, May 12, 2024

Carla's Favorite Products for Delivery Driving

The following are my favorite resources for delivery driving. I will be updating this post as I go, experiencing and learning new favorites for my gig life. 

As of 5/13/2024, none of the items are affiliate products.

This is item is only second to my vehicle when it comes to doing deliveries. I may get strange looks. Even my sister looked me up and down and asked me where I was going. I could only laugh out loud. I tried wearing other footwear, but I only ended up with damaged shoes and damaged feet. I recall how I would get severe cramps in my feet at night following a delivery shift. These boots are WONDERFUL. I cannot sing their praises much more. They are very comfortable. The boot hugs my foot and ankle. The insoles are shaped perfectly to my foot, they are not flat. The toe box provides AMPLE room for my toes, much like those bare-foot shoes that I have been seeing lately. I have even noticed an improvement in the shape of my feet and toe spacing. Because they are boots, they provide ankle protection as I am delivering to some of these interesting rural areas with gravel, rocks, and uneven surfaces. They are waterproof and rugged. This helps on those rainy days and in the winter, keeping my toes rather dry. And helps me keep me calm on the occasional dodging of dog "land mines" on various properties. I do not worry at all about getting my boots dirty. Now that was a huge problem when I was wearing my fashion sneakers. Never again. Concluding, I give this product 5 stars ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐.

Wednesday, May 8, 2024

Are the Rookie Discoveries Still Valid?




Back in 2022, I got the courage to create a video of my brand new Spark Delivery experiences [video above]. Prior to that I was a Lyft driver, so I was excited to share my exploits from this new gig. So, I created this video with the intent to share "valuable insights I gathered during my early days driving for Spark." Do I still find them to be helpful? Well, I will give my new insights below each tip.


1. Pre-Loading Addresses with Google Maps:

When waiting for curbside deliveries, especially for batch orders, I've found it incredibly helpful to open Google Maps and input all customer addresses in advance. This saves time during navigation and ensures seamless transitions between deliveries.

STILL A RECOMMENDATION: No.

I currently do not add all the addresses to the navigation list. This was helpful to kill time while waiting to be loaded, and at that time, navigation was a bit glitchy while out, so this was only useful a couple of times before I abandoned it. Google has improved its navigation system, so some of the problems that I encountered, primarily sending you to the wrong address, has worked itself out. So, 


2. Double-Check Addresses:

Always double-check the addresses provided by the Spark app before navigating. I've had instances where the app directed me to the wrong house, leading to unnecessary confusion and delays. Verifying addresses can prevent mishaps and ensure smooth deliveries.

STILL A RECOMMENDATION: Yes.

Even though there have been a number of updates since I originally gave this recommendation, it is still a valid tip. The addresses still need verification.

3. Utilize Stickers for Efficiency:

Bringing stickers provided by Spark for bagged orders into the car has been a game-changer. It allows me to start the delivery process from the comfort of my vehicle, saving time and effort, especially in unfavorable weather conditions.

STILL A RECOMMENDATION: Yes.

I'm not sure if I was clear enough in the video, but I meant, bringing in ADDITIONAL stickers into the car for your dashboard. You definitely want to still have the stickers on each separate order to ensure that the customer gets their correct order. With that being said, this is still helpful. For me, this is more of a winter thing than any other time. I say that because you get to stay in the warmth of your car for just that little bit of time longer.


4. Start Shopping Early and Preview the List:

Arriving early for shopping orders and previewing the shopping list in advance helps me strategize and locate items more efficiently. Additionally, I've found that speed-walking through the store with my phone in the cart increases productivity.

STILL A RECOMMENDATION: Yes.

This is still a good tip. I do not really put the phone in the cart as much as I did back then. I like to wear this "kangaroo pouch" hoodie to keep my phone close at hand. This works best for me because for whatever reason, designers do not feel the need to give women's pants REAL, functional pockets, so my items tend to fall out if I use them. 
Example of a "kangaroo pouch" hoodie.


5. Keep Items Fresh During Transit:

For orders containing perishable items, such as cold groceries, I utilize the different zones of my car's AC system to maintain freshness. Directing cold air to the back of the car helps preserve the quality of the items until delivery.

STILL A RECOMMENDATION: Yes.

I most absolutely still use this!!! I wish there were a way to attach hoses from the ceiling vents to a blanket of some sort so that I can enclose the space to retain the coolness. I have been thinking about this for some time, I'm sure I'll come up with something that does not damage my car in the process.


6. Invest in Reusable Bags and a Wagon:

Reusable bags and a sturdy wagon have proven to be lifesavers for handling larger orders. They minimize the need for multiple trips to the car and provide a more convenient and sustainable alternative to traditional plastic bags.

STILL A RECOMMENDATION: Yes.

This is another one of those "can't do without" tip. When you are making multiple deliveries throughout the day, you must do all you can to protect your health. You only get one body! I know first hand how an injury can affect your well being and your livelihood. I was out for almost 2 months due to a back injury, then an illness. Coming back, I was very diligent in protecting myself from reinjury.

Link to the reusable bags that I use (no affiliate): https://bit.ly/4dzFC2J 

Link to collapsible wagon that I use (no affiliate): https://bit.ly/3QJ6zau 


7. Optimize Car Space for Small Orders:

Utilizing the fold-down feature of my SUV's third-row seat creates a secure compartment for smaller orders, preventing items from rolling around during transit.

STILL A RECOMMENDATION: No.

I have found that the IKEA bags work just as well for containing smaller orders. So, this is just a time-waster to change up the back area. It stays flat 99.99% of the time. I cannot remember the last time I flipped it down to create the little compartment.


In conclusion, these rookie discoveries were worthwhile in the beginning and continue to be, with the exception of two of the seven. So, it seems I was actually onto something even in the early stages. So, to cut your learning curve down, you can also incorporate these tips into your delivery experience.

As always, stay safe out there!

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